View Full Version : Sorry Ladies but I just have to say it...
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 10:32 AM
If it hasn't been said before, I'm sick of you married sistas complaining about taking care of your man. I'm tired of you complaining about too much sex. WTF??? There is no such thing when you're married!!! If you arse didn't want to become a wife, you should of stayed single. I'm tired of your man telling me how you never cook for the family or how you never want to make love to your King. How you don't take time for him or the kids. TMI for Blu!!! Dammit...if he's doing what he's suppose to do, then you can at least meet him half way. :redhot:
:rolleyes:
MsJag4Jag
June 6, 2001, 10:54 AM
Huh?
Warndalyn
June 6, 2001, 11:00 AM
WTF are you drankin'?
MACKG
June 6, 2001, 11:08 AM
Do you need some Richard in your life???
Suge
June 6, 2001, 11:09 AM
Originally posted by BluBlood
I'm tired of your man telling me how you never cook for the family or how you never want to make love to your King. How you don't take time for him or the kids. TMI for Blu!!!
Please tell me that you aren't as naive as your post implies. the only reason marraied man tells you, an unmarried woman, about his "problems" at home is that he is trying to get in your pants stupid. Think about it..why would he come to you with his problems? Who are you? Nobody...except for the fact that you have something betwen your thighs that he wants! geta grip and realize that it probaly isn't as bad at home as he is telling you...but if that's what it takes, he will do it.....and it is apparent that you are gullable!
Warndalyn
June 6, 2001, 11:16 AM
Could you be a little more blunt?
Barre Baby
June 6, 2001, 11:19 AM
dang!! Thats messed up!!!
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 11:19 AM
Suge, sweety, it's only gullable if I fall for this sad tactic. Please, are you that stupid!!! I know what he's up too. sheeesh Free country...free post. What's the woman's motive?
AAMU Big Dawg
June 6, 2001, 11:26 AM
:redhot: Dang Suge! Now I gots to come up with another line. Just puttin' all my business in da street. Quit Hatin' man. A brother just tryin' to push up on Blu and you gone and blown his cover. :D
Originally posted by Suge
Please tell me that you aren't as naive as your post implies. the only reason marraied man tells you, an unmarried woman, about his "problems" at home is that he is trying to get in your pants stupid. Think about it..why would he come to you with his problems? Who are you? Nobody...except for the fact that you have something betwen your thighs that he wants! geta grip and realize that it probaly isn't as bad at home as he is telling you...but if that's what it takes, he will do it.....and it is apparent that you are gullable!
Suge
June 6, 2001, 11:33 AM
Originally posted by BluBlood
Suge, sweety, it's only gullable if I fall for this sad tactic. Please, are you that stupid!!! I know what he's up too. sheeesh Free country...free post. What's the woman's motive?
Now all of a sudden you don't believe him...yet you made a post admonishing women for "not taking care of their husbands needs" and ask them what was wrong with them. Just because you didn't sleep with the man doesn't mean that you didn't fall for the game. The fact that you even believed it was naive enough! But I guess I am wrong.......you just made the post, just because!
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 11:38 AM
Suge, my intelligent brotha, if you have a problem with my posts...just don't reply. Why do you get so upset with the simplicity of a post? Do you need a vacation?
Correction...I know the game that men try to play...I feel if their wives were actually working the "wife role", then I doubt they would be looking elsewhere.
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 11:40 AM
Haters to the left......haters to the right!!!!
Shaking my got dayum head!!!!!
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 11:43 AM
Damn that's on point. I have messed with enough married and engaged women to know that if a man is not doing something right a woman will look elsewhere. Men do the same. Blu join the club........some people are unhappily married.
SUGE believe me........I feel Blu on this one.
Originally posted by BluBlood
...I feel if their wives were actually working the "wife role", then I doubt they would be looking elsewhere.
Warndalyn
June 6, 2001, 11:44 AM
I hate hearing people say this....why, you ask?
Well I'm glad you asked....I was once married and what a wife does or not does at home has nothing to do with what a husband will or will not do out in dem streets. Don't put that chit on the wife because his @ss is trifling, greedy, disrespectful, etc. and don't know a good thing when it's staring him right in the face at home.
He/She cheats because he/she wants to......period.
Suge
June 6, 2001, 11:45 AM
Originally posted by BluBlood
Correction...I know the game that men try to play...I feel if their wives were actually working the "wife role", then I doubt they would be looking elsewhere.
Thank you Blu for helping me prove my point. Because if you actually believe this statement..you really are naive!
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 11:46 AM
*shaking my head* Suge...obviously you're the naive one. Brotha get a clue.
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 11:55 AM
Is the ignorant mother****er who is stupid enough to believe that a man who has a wife doing every damned thing at home ... cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, AND handling up in the bedroom, STILL won't step his TRIFLING, ULTRA SORRY ass out, because HE WILL!
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:01 PM
Nita..you are wrong! LOL! You need to get a ride with me to Wal-Mart. They have clues on sale!!
Because all these men that are cheating are justified because their wives aren't doing tgeir jobs. And if you don't believe me, you can ask Blu...they told her all about it!
LadyJag
June 6, 2001, 12:05 PM
Originally posted by BluBlood
If it hasn't been said before, I'm sick of you married sistas complaining about taking care of your man. I'm tired of you complaining about too much sex. WTF??? There is no such thing when you're married!!! If you arse didn't want to become a wife, you should of stayed single. I'm tired of your man telling me how you never cook for the family or how you never want to make love to your King. How you don't take time for him or the kids. TMI for Blu!!! Dammit...if he's doing what he's suppose to do, then you can at least meet him half way. :redhot:
:rolleyes:
Come on Blu,
And I suppose this is the whole story right, not just his twisted perspective. Tell me, would he actually be telling you how wonderful his wife was and how happy he was IF his freakin ultimate goal was NOT to get a piece from you? And please tell me you're not that naive to think that ALL married women fall into the simplistic category stated above. :confused:
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 12:14 PM
What simplistic category Lady Jag? I used the term "wife role". Suge implemented his four "C" theory.
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:18 PM
....Ladyjag needs a ride to the store too. I heard those clues are going 2 for 1!
Now what do the 4C's have to do with you and your tirade against married women? Don't try to use me in your defense of your statements. If you believe what you said, then stand by it. But don't try and use me as a cop out! I stand by my statements!
Its funny that ladyjag said the same thing I did, but mine was seen as an attack, and me "having a poblem with blu's post"!
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:20 PM
You guys fail to realize one point. Women will cheat just as fast as men will and vice-vesra. This is almost a null discussion. It's like throwing out bait. Hell if Blu wants to mess with a married man so what.........dayum, people are so opinionated when it doesn't even concern them.
The game of, "Oh my wife treats me so bad has been going on for years." Next thing you know he's sticking the love muscle in the deep wet hole.
the game of, "Oh my husband doesn't listen." Next thing you know she has the love muscle deep in her throat.
For me to sit back and say Blu don't mess with him would be wrong, for the simple fact I have messed with married women. The problem is just don't fall in love.
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 12:20 PM
Originally posted by Suge
And what are you doing talking to married men anyway? Isn't that putting yourself in harms way? But then again...you know the game..................
I'm not sure if you know this or not Suge, but psst...my co-workers are married...my friends are married, also.
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:22 PM
Originally posted by Dr. Sweet NUPE
You guys fail to realize one point. Women will cheat just as fast as men will and vice-vesra. This is almost a null discussion. It's like throwing out bait. Hell if Blu wants to mess with a married man so what.........dayum, people are so opinionated when it doesn't even concern them.
The game of, "Oh my wife treats me so bad has been going on for years." Next thing you know he's sticking the love muscle in the deep wet hole.
the game of, "Oh my husband doesn't listen." Next thing you know she has the love muscle deep in her throat.
For me to sit back and say Blu don't mess with him would be wrong, for the simple fact I have messed with married women. The problem is just don't fall in love.
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:25 PM
You ever "Sexed" a married or engaged woman?
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by Dr. Sweet NUPE
For me to sit back and say Blu don't mess with him would be wrong, for the simple fact I have messed with married women. The problem is just don't fall in love.
When you do get married, I hope those words don't come back to haunt you when your wife says, "But I don't LOVE him ... I LOVE YOU!"
Furthermore, the purpose of this thread was to let everyone know that us wives need to handle up at the crib so that our NOBLE KINGS WHO HAVE NOTHING BUT HONORABLE INTENTIONS won't go telling BluBlood what **** UPS we are!
It has nothing to do with WOMEN CHEATING!
LadyJag
June 6, 2001, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by BluBlood
What simplistic category Lady Jag? I used the term "wife role". Suge implemented his four "C" theory.
Well Blu,
IMO all your statements referring to married women have been simplistic and sterotypical. Also, in one breath you admit to knowing that the husband you speak of is running game to get the panties but in another you blame the wife for not handling her business at home. Which is it? If you can not answer that question then how can you make such general statements based on one side of the story. I know you are free to your opinion but I do beg to differ. Futhermore, exactly what is your definition of the term "wife role", and "husband role" for that matter?
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:26 PM
Man you lost me.......
Maybe you need to go with me, Nita, and Ladyjag and buy some clues!
mighty hornet
June 6, 2001, 12:28 PM
Originally posted by Vinita
When you do get married, I hope those words don't come back to haunt you when your wife says, "But I don't LOVE him ... I LOVE YOU!"
Great post, Nita
MsJag4Jag
June 6, 2001, 12:29 PM
People cheat because they choose to and they can.
Prayerfully none of us have to see the results of a cheating spouse..
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 12:29 PM
I'm not sexing any married man or woman. Suge, I used your 4 Cs because when I use the terms "wife role". One may automatically think keep them bearfoot and pregnant. No, that's not what I'm saying. Hide behind you...please. I would need a stronger shield. I thought this was a free country...free post? I guess I was wrong. O, LadyJag was civil with her response, so I was civil in return. :p
Wife role-Proverbs 31
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:30 PM
Nita, it takes two count em, two to make a relationship, in this case a marriage work. When one is slacking the other will go out and get what's missing. No one is perfect but for some reason people search for perfection in marriage. Marriage will never be perfect. Honestly some men don't need to get married because they expect their wives to be just like their mother's. That chit ain't happening.....not in this day a freakin age.
I'm telling you when someone cheats both parties (meaning the husband and wife) had something to do with it.
Originally posted by Vinita
When you do get married, I hope those words don't come back to haunt you when your wife says, "But I don't LOVE him ... I LOVE YOU!"
Furthermore, the purpose of this thread was to let everyone know that us wives need to handle up at the crib so that our NOBLE KINGS WHO HAVE NOTHING BUT HONORABLE INTENTIONS won't go telling BluBlood what **** UPS we are!
It has nothing to do with WOMEN CHEATING!
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 12:32 PM
That a MAN going out and sticking his TRIFLING ASSED JOHNSON where it DOES NOT BELONG does not ALWAYS have anything to do with the woman he left at home while he went WILLYING AROUND THE DAMNED TOWN!
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:35 PM
What I'm saying is......the same chit that married men say to single women............married women say it to single men.
For instance I had a little thingie going on with a married woman......she sat back a told me everything her husband wasn't doing. You know what I did.......I filled that little void in her life. All she wanted was to be appreciated. Later she ended up divorcing his ARSE but you know what.....I used to tell her give the guy a chance. Talk to him, communicate with him.
Originally posted by Suge
Man you lost me.......
Maybe you need to go with me, Nita, and Ladyjag and buy some clues!
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:35 PM
Here we go again...now you are going to start whining and saying I was attacking you again! I'm done..I hope you aren't on the debate team.......you would never win. Instead of defending your point....you just start to cry foul! When in reality I just called you on your statement...but I guess it would be too embarassing to admit that maybe your logic has some loopholes.
But I am going to get some clues like you said. But with all the people who need clues..we may need to rent a U-haul. And since you know where they are..can you drive us?
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 12:37 PM
Suge, you are the only one that I say needed a clue. You placed the others in that category with you.
Fiyah
June 6, 2001, 12:38 PM
:eek: :confused: :eek: :confused: :eek: :confused: :eek:
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:38 PM
Originally posted by Dr. Sweet NUPE
What I'm saying is......the same chit that married men say to single women............married women say it to single men.
Who said they didn't? But that wasn't the topic......we are talking about if women cheat too.......
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:38 PM
A marriage takes to two people to make it work. If one is triffling then it ain't gone work. Just like a man will stick his Johnson where it doesn't belong a woman have her "Wet Hole" stuck with a Johnson that doesn't belong. Take it from me I know.
When a woman or man for that matter isn't getting hat they require at home......they go elsewhere. For some reason they don't have the balls to say I want a divorce or sya what's on their mind.
Originally posted by Vinita
That a MAN going out and sticking his TRIFLING ASSED JOHNSON where it DOES NOT BELONG does not ALWAYS have anything to do with the woman he left at home while he went WILLYING AROUND THE DAMNED TOWN!
Warndalyn
June 6, 2001, 12:39 PM
This is a good topic, and one that needs to be discussed. It's funny how soooo many folks actually believe this crap. I ain't ever gonna take the blame for someone else's mishaps....sorry, uhn, uhn, no can do.:rolleyes:
Suge
June 6, 2001, 12:42 PM
Only I need a clue......
Everybody else(even if they agree with what I said) is okay! Thanks for clearing that up.....
You really do know the game!
D-Town, Nita, LJ......umm yall gonna have to get out. Blu said I am the only one that needs to buy a clue!
_ _ _!
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:43 PM
Suge there is a CAUSE to every EFFECT. Hell no one cheats just because they can......I don't care what you say. There are reasons.
Suge you put gas in your truck because the gas hand tells you. Well men and women are the same way......if a married couple gas gets on Empty somebody either is going to put some into the marriage or drive another car.
The women that I have had an extramarital affair with, chose to drive another car until their spouse decided to put some gas in the car. When he put gas in the car either the marriage was over or I ended it.
Originally posted by Suge
Who said they didn't? But that wasn't the topic......we are talking about if women cheat too.......
jag4life
June 6, 2001, 12:43 PM
I understand Blu's point of view. I don't think it's a crazy concept for him to be telling the truth while using it to get down with her.
The best game is when it's actually the truth.
mighty hornet
June 6, 2001, 12:49 PM
Sweets,
Dude you're something else!
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 12:52 PM
Uh, LADYJAG, would you be so kind as to check you PM in order that you might bestow upon me a timely response? Thank you!
*We now return you to your regular programming.*
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:53 PM
I guess some people never messed with someone who was married or engaged. SMH.......that was an experience.
Honestly, married women are some of the BIGGEST FREAKS you can mess with. Simply because they have tried everything with their husband. So, hey, trying it with me ain't nothing new.
Originally posted by mighty hornet
Sweets,
Dude you're something else!
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 12:56 PM
As long as the experience is enjoyable for all, and no one falls in love.
:rolleyes:
BluBlood
June 6, 2001, 12:57 PM
Originally posted by Dr. Sweet NUPE
I guess some people never messed with someone who was married or engaged. SMH.......that was an experience.
No Sweets, I have not or wait...I take that back! You said engaged also. :D...but never married.http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/contrib/edoom/disapear.gif
Dr. Sweet NUPE
June 6, 2001, 12:59 PM
People screw everyday and are not in Love. I'm a realist. If you are attracted to a person and want to to get with them, you'll do anything in your power to do it, including commit Adultry.
Originally posted by Vinita
As long as the experience is enjoyable for all, and no one falls in love.
:rolleyes:
JSTUS
June 6, 2001, 01:00 PM
Originally posted by Dtown Jag
I ain't ever gonna take the blame for someone else's mishaps....sorry, uhn, uhn, no can do.:rolleyes:
Exactly my thoughts.
Vinita
June 6, 2001, 01:02 PM
It's been REAL ...
real WHAT, I haven't figured out yet! :D
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