Ladies

[BluBlood]

Sistas...ok...what if you're married to a wonderful man. He has never cheated on you. He treats you like a queen. Cheating opportunites have surrounded him in the past, but he loves you and respects the marriage. Ok...you have an friend...colleague. (soror perhaps) who is old enough to be your mother. You all get together every now and then (brunch, drinks, etc). Again she is old enough to be your mother, but she is also Pam Grier and Tina Turner fine!!! You can tell that your husband has a "small"crush(attraction) on her. Both you, him and the lady knows that there is no threat of him attempting to get with her, but when you all are together, he stares and blushes and boyishly flirt with her. Do you get angry? Do you think that it's cute that he behaves so boyishly around the old lady? What do you do?

[jelli]

I dont bother him about it. If I'm secure in my relationship then this will seem like a cute crush to me. So I stay cool.:cool: :D

[The SWAC]

Blu...cut out these man scenarios.....what's your profession..magazine reader?

[BluBlood]

SWAC...I don't read those types of magazines. They are a waste of my time. Dude...this is real life; just not my life. People need an ear so I give it to them. I ask you all, because I'm running out of advice.

[The SWAC]

I'm glad I'm not in that business...I would tell them fools to use your mf'ing brain and stop looking on the outside.

ain't nothing sadder than a dumb azz black woman who's been told numerous times don't do certain things.

[GramTigress]

Originally posted by The SWAC
I'm glad I'm not in that business...I would tell them fools to use your mf'ing brain and stop looking on the outside.

ain't nothing sadder than a dumb azz black woman who's been told numerous times don't do certain things.

http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/otn/violent/Dippie.gif Moving on.....

I would not say anything to him unless he down right disrespects me. Now it depends on what you consider disrespectful. Some people do not consider flirting disrespectful, even if it is done in your partner's presence.

[eminentJSUtiger]

Originally posted by jelli
I dont bother him about it. If I'm secure in my relationship then this will seem like a cute crush to me. So I stay cool.:cool: :D

no doubt, cuz i am sure that he can't resist these Homestyle Cookies compared to Granny's Delight, but if he does wanna go, "get on like you been spit on!!!"

[chocalate_topaz]

Don't look for problems where there are none. Everyone is fond of somebody but they aren't trying to get with them. Forget about it!:D

[jelli]

Originally posted by eminentJSUtiger


if he does wanna go, "get on like you been spit on!!!" Tru Dat cuz you can't make nobody luv you so if wants to leave then get the hell on.....;) :cool: